Dear Tina,
I lost my precious cat to cancer over a year ago, and I still can’t move on. I cry almost every night thinking of her. I am nauseous and sometimes feel pain in my stomach – ironically where her cancer originated. We were so close, but I feel like I should be at a place where it doesn’t affect me this much by now. Why can’t I let her go?
— Weeping Widow
Dear Weeping Widow,
First of all, I am so sorry for your loss. I’m very attached to my cats as well, so I can only imagine your grief. There are a few reasons that you may not be able to move on, however the most likely reason is that you two are most likely connected by an energy cord.